Grandma came back from the dead to tell me: You can always put in more salt but you can't take it out.
Ask for what they don't have. Watch your mouth. If you need the feeling then take it. I told grandma:

I'll be right over. She said: Surprise me. Keep your visor on. Let your business unwind in the casual way.
Wash your ankles like a gentleman. Don't let them push you around. And keep your anger to your children.

I said: Grandma I've been stuck in a misunderstanding. I've been on the verge of losing you and I don't know how.
I need a bag of pebbles if I'm going to feed a rhinoceros. Grandma told me: Some weeks are hard on the shoulders.

Ask your mother. Ask your son. There might not be a hot pan of chicken on the stove but the kitchen is yours.